The term ‘boudoir photography‘ is used to describe a number of things, including lingerie, pin up, fetish, tasteful nudes and even just shots that have a hint of a tease or little bit more skin on show! Basically it refers to anything remotely seductive. How far you go with it is entirely up to you.
Here I aim to provide some boudoir photography ideas and tips for your glamorous photoshoot. From a renowned photographer based here in Tokyo, these boudoir photography ideas are things that I have seen excel.
What to wear for a unique boudoir photoshoot
There is a common misconception that a boudoir photography shoot means totally naked; it can be, but only if that is what you’re going for. The majority of shots have lingerie, stockings and pretty glamorous hair and makeup but at the same time a simple oversized shirt with messy hair and very little makeup is considered Boudoir when shot in the right way. It is very much customisable based on what kind of look you like.
Do you have to have your own outfits?
As the majority of boudoir is lingerie and stockings, it is definitely best to put together your own look for the shoot as quite frankly, some items just should not be shared! Also, with so many different shapes and sizes, a one size fits all approach would never work for boudoir.
Finding a look for a boudoir photoshoot is all about what appeals to you. Some prefer delicate fabrics that drape off one shoulder whereas others opt for a structured corseted look.
Lingerie Choices
One of the most exciting parts of preparing for your boudoir shoot is choosing your outfits. Lingerie is the obvious choice, but there are many different styles to consider. A lacy bra and panty set can be both sexy and classic, while a bodysuit can be flattering and add a touch of sophistication. Don’t be afraid to mix it up with different textures and colors. Black is always a timeless choice, but consider adding a pop of color or a pattern that reflects your personality. If you’re feeling adventurous, opt for a corset or garter belt to add some extra flair.
Beyond Lingerie
While lingerie is a staple for boudoir shoots, don’t feel limited to just that. A sheer robe, an oversized sweater, or even a man’s button-up shirt can be incredibly sensual while still leaving a little to the imagination. You could also consider incorporating something personal, like a favorite piece of jewelry or a cherished item that has sentimental value.
Accessorize
Accessories can elevate your look and add a personal touch to your photos. Consider wearing statement jewelry, such as a long necklace, chandelier earrings, or a delicate anklet. High heels can elongate your legs and add an extra dose of confidence. Props like a silk robe, a bouquet of flowers, or even a vintage mirror can also enhance the style of your shoot.
Putting your boudoir look together is great fun, you can dig out your most daring lingerie, grab that corset that you haven’t worn yet or even that dress that’s just a little bit too see through! Take note of images you like and what the outfits are and remember to think about the details. Your boudoir look should be personal to you and the overall feel you wish to create.
Photographers Tip:
While it’s tempting to choose the most daring or intricate pieces, comfort is key. If you’re not comfortable, it will show in the photos. Make sure your lingerie fits well and isn’t too tight or loose. It’s also a good idea to bring a variety of options to your shoot so you can change if something doesn’t feel right. Remember, confidence is the most attractive thing you can wear, so choose outfits that make you feel your best.
Preparing for the Shoot
Skincare and Grooming
A few days before your shoot, start preparing your skin. Exfoliate and moisturize to ensure your skin is smooth and glowing. Consider getting a manicure and pedicure, as your hands and feet may be featured in some shots. If you plan to shave or wax, do so a day or two before the shoot to avoid any irritation or redness. And, of course, don’t forget about your hair—whether you’re planning to wear it down, up, or somewhere in between, make sure it’s clean and styled in a way that makes you feel confident.
Hydration and Rest
The days leading up to your shoot are crucial for looking and feeling your best. Make sure you’re drinking plenty of water, and aim for at least 7-8 hours of sleep the night before your shoot. Being well-rested will help reduce any puffiness and give you the energy you need to enjoy the experience.
Hair and Makeup
It’s true that photographic makeup is a little heavier than your average day to day look. However, there are no rules about boudoir photography makeup. Many people opt for a heavier look as that’s what works with their chosen outfits so it is what you typically see. Some styles work better with a soft, glowy look. It all really depends on what you’re going for.
Many boudoir photographers offer professional hair and makeup as part of their packages, which can be a great way to take the stress out of getting ready. If you’re doing your own, go for a look that enhances your natural beauty while adding a bit of glam. Think soft, smoky eyes, defined brows, and a nude or red lip. Even if you’re not used to wearing much makeup, a little bit can go a long way in photographs. If you’re unsure, consider doing a trial run a few days before to perfect your look.
The two most popular boudoir looks are of course vintage with a red lip, liquid winged liner and waved glossy hair and the other is a smoky eye. When we talk about smoky eye looks, there is such a huge scale to work with. It can be soft and minimal or heavy and black and still be classed as ‘smoky’. In makeup artistry the word just simply refers to the way the eyeshadow is applied and not the heaviness of it! If you are unsure about what makeup you would like have a look at some images and give your makeup artist a reference to the kind of look you like.
Background and setting boudoir photography ideas
This varies based on what kind of images you would like. Sometimes a simple background is used to keep a very clean and classic look and sometimes a giant gold chaise longue is called for! Many photographers and studios set dress for the occasion.
If you have something very particular in mind, be vocal and very often your photographer can set it up. At our studio, we have a range of backgrounds and sets that are suitable for boudoir and we tailor them to suit the look and style that you are going for.
Boudoir posing guide
With boudoir, people dream up scenarios where they have to strip down in front of a complete stranger, they imagine a seedy photographer making them feel super awkward with extreme poses. They imagine the shots will highlight the cellulite more than the curves and that the photographer may also in some way feel awkward.
Well… In a word… No! None of this happens. Seasoned photographers have seen everything possible and are trained in all aspects of photography. To a photographer, you are the subject and they look at a shoot from the perspective of creating a piece of art with each image. They have an in-depth discussion with you about what kind of look you want so you will not be directed in a way that would be uncomfortable for you.
Also, there are robes and screens if you don’t want to walk around in your sexiest get up! As far as the end result goes, we have NEVER come across a client who regretted doing a boudoir photoshoot and the typical thing people say after their shoot is ‘It wasn’t scary at all’. The only confidence you need is to get in front of the camera. Once you’re there the rest is so much easier than you might think!
Vintage style Boudoir photography tips
Although the word ‘Boudoir’ refers to vintage glamour, in photography the meaning has evolved to cover anything seductive. Saying that, by far the most popular form of Boudoir photography is the classic meaning.
This would be stockings, corsets and a classic red lip and liquid liner. As beautiful as the original Boudoir look is, it does not mean that you have to look like a 1950s pin up to do a Boudoir photoshoot. It can be absolutely anything you like.
Can you focus on a fetish during a boudoir photoshoot?
You can go as far as you like! It is YOUR shoot. Boudoir photography is about whatever makes you feel good. Ultimately, that is the whole point of boudoir photography! It should be a bold representation of you. Do not hold back if you want to go for it! Most people wish they had brought their most daring outfits when they are at the studio but by then it’s too late! When it comes to boudoir photography you do not need to adhere to your day to day norms… it’s always best to step out of that comfort zone to create images you are sure to love.
During the Shoot
Relax and Trust the Process
It’s completely normal to feel a little nervous before your boudoir shoot, especially if it’s your first time. Remember that your photographer is a professional, and their job is to make you look and feel your best. They will guide you through poses, help you with your wardrobe, and create an environment where you feel comfortable and empowered. The more you can relax and trust the process, the more your confidence will shine through in the photos.
Communication is Key
During your shoot, don’t be afraid to speak up if something doesn’t feel right or if you have a specific shot in mind. This is your session, and your photographer is there to bring your vision to life. Whether it’s adjusting a pose, changing an outfit, or tweaking the lighting, open communication will help ensure that the final images are exactly what you want.
Enjoy the Moment
This is your time to shine! The more fun you have, the better your photos will turn out. Don’t be afraid to move, laugh, and play around with different poses. Your photographer will capture those spontaneous moments that show off your personality and natural beauty.
Is it best to photoshop Boudoir photographs?
Often images you see in the media and online have had a complete photoshop transformation. Do not be fooled by the flawless look that you see, it is not a true representation of beauty. We believe less is more! When you view your images for the first time you will see them exactly as they are taken. Very often clients are happy with the look of the shots as they are. However, if requested, a light natural edit can be done. The whole point of Boudoir is to showcase you as you are so we believe a heavy overly photoshopped look is not necessary but we can of course do a little tweak if you like!
Boudoir photography tips with a partner
We have done many couple shoots of this nature. Again, these have been everything from going shirtless for a classic skin on skin shot to pulling out the PVC and the props! It’s totally customisable and tailored to you and your partner. It has been quite a popular option for anniversaries and engagements and the results never fail to please.
Boudoir photography ideas for older women
There is nothing more empowering than a woman who celebrates herself at any age. Women have done boudoir shoots to celebrate their 60th birthdays at Vanity Studios. It is a great way to feel fantastic about yourself and to defy the norms! We absolutely love when a client unapologetically owns who they are and boudoir is a great way to showcase this in an image.
Boudoir photography tips for men
Why the hell not?! Boudoir is simply a style of photography and if the style is essentially a sexy photoshoot, it is for anyone! Men in Boudoir has even been referred to as ‘dudoir’ or ‘dudeoir’, which we love! We have done countless suggestive shots with men, everything from underwear to spraying them with water and oil for that ‘just out of the shower’ look. Men’s boudoir is great and actually pretty popular! It just shows there is no limitation on this style of photography.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I’m not comfortable in front of the camera?
It’s normal to feel a little shy, especially if you’ve never done a boudoir shoot before. Your photographer will guide you through poses and create an environment where you feel comfortable and relaxed. The key is to trust the process as well as your photographer and allow yourself to enjoy the experience.
Do I have to be nude?
Absolutely not. Boudoir is about what makes you feel confident and beautiful. Whether you want to go fully clothed, partially nude, or somewhere in between, it’s entirely up to you. Many boudoir photographers offer a variety of options, from implied nudity to full coverage, so you can choose what you’re most comfortable with.
Can I bring a friend?
Many photographers allow you to bring a friend for moral support but check with your photographer beforehand. Having a friend there can help calm your nerves and make the experience more enjoyable. Just make sure it’s someone who will be supportive and encouraging.
How do I prepare for my boudoir shoot?
Preparation is key to a successful boudoir shoot. In addition to choosing your outfits and planning your hair and makeup, take care of yourself in the days leading up to the shoot. Stay hydrated, get plenty of rest, and practice self-care.
What should I expect during the shoot?
During the shoot, expect to have fun! Your photographer will do everything in their power to make you feel as comfortable as possible (they understand how vulnerable this kind of shoot is)–from posing to outfit changes. Remember that boudoir photography is all about celebrating your unique beauty and confidence.
A boudoir shoot is an investment in yourself—a celebration of your beauty, confidence, and individuality. If you’re looking for more outfit ideas to help you feel like your best, check out these boudoir outfits that will make you feel fierce.
